We always reach our destination at the predetermined time by Universe. So no need to rush, rather work hard to achieve your goal and enjoy the journey and feel the transformation you will experience while moving towards your ultimate destination.
Tuesday, 24 May 2016
Saturday, 21 May 2016
Benefits of having an open and free mind
Most of the people feel offended
many of times due to various circumstances or situations life throws. But an open
and free mind always stays detached from all the outer circumstances and knows
that it is never the self which is offended, but it’s we and our mind which let
us our inner self affected and make feel offended due to outer circumstances.
If we don’t like an apple, that doesn’t mean the apple is bad, many other
people love the same apple. So when someone insults you or doesn’t like you,
that doesn’t mean you are bad, that simply means that the person has different choices.
You know yourself the most; it’s an image of yourself to which you are attached,
and that image doesn’t resonate with the image you form after or during an
insult. Simply put, you highly affect your inner self and start believing on off
put remarks by others on you, which even overpower your belief on yourself, and
you start justifying yourself. But, if you would have been detached, if you
would have kept your self-belief stronger, no offence would have been taken. Although,
this doesn’t mean that you make your personality so stiff that no other person
could help you become a better personality, which is against your growth and
enlightenment. Criticism is always required, but self-evaluation is must. You
must sit in silence, and evaluate your weaker areas to work upon in order to
keep upgrading yourself and moving towards betterment and self-growth.
Detachment doesn’t mean you isolate
yourself from socializing or accepting others’ views. It simply means making
you inner self and belief so stronger that no negative outer circumstances
would affect your inner being.
The power to mold and adapt oneself with different group of
people in different situations requires:
Tolerance, acceptance, ability to face negative situations
with a sense of detachment, ability to forgive, ability to be a detached
observer of people’s actions and situations while raising your right opinions
in positive and calm manner wherever required, cooperation, right and positive
communication, understanding others perspective, focus more on positive traits
of other person rather criticizing them for negative traits, ability to
empathize, show respect to other person and remain calm.
These abilities surely help one achieve success not only in
professional front but in each sphere of life, either with the relationship
with others or with self.
Thursday, 19 May 2016
Ways to let go and move on
We keep evolving time to time as
we age. Just because you faced problems in past doesn’t mean you will still
face problems in such circumstances, or something which was right for you in
past not necessarily be right today. This fact can be applied in any situation,
could be a relationship, a habit, a job, etc.
You keep discovering yourself
deeply more and more gradually as you grow; you get to know what you truly
desire, what ultimate outcome you want out of your life, with whom you want to
stay and without whom you need to move on; and slowly you realize that these
changes in life are required and gradually comes in your personality with
circumstances and different happenings around you and inside you.
You might not feel too
comfortable with the people were best friends in your school or college time,
those specific routines you used to follow and the people you used to be with
are no longer align with you current consciences.
Circumstances and situations
which force you to changes, let go and move on
There could be many situations
and circumstances arise in our life which we never thought about in past or you
might would want to be mentally and emotionally stronger because you have hurt
by the ones you love one or several times. Other reasons could be, you have
grown apart from someone. Sometimes we
are destined to meet someone from a set time period but we gradually evolve and
understand that they are not compatible people for us and committed to
misunderstand us and however moving on and letting go is the better solution
for a positive flow of life. Other reason could be some negative people around
you who are energy jabbers and has to cut out from your life slowly, or you
need to overcome the fears which hold you back, etc.
Letting go is surely not easy,
but it is necessary for our own well-being and growth.
Ways to move on and let go
Holding on the past often leads
to discouragement and miseries, whereas letting go while cherishing the present
moments help you realize how beautifully you've transformed and stepping
towards your personal growth and becoming the person you'll love to be &
destined to be. Let’s take a look at few ways
- Take ownership and charge of your life: Whatever
situations you face in life, always remember that no one is responsible for
that except you. You are in completely charge of whatever occurs in your
life, and should not blame other person or your parents your mentors etc.
Unless and until you’ll learn to accept that you are the one who is
responsible for all good or bad occur in your life, rather blaming others,
you will never be able to help yourself grow as a person and take the
learning of life. If you want the change in your life, you are the only
one who can make it happen.
- Accept with gratitude: Letting go is
difficult, but when you be thankful for the good or bad experiences
you had that helped you learn and grow, it becomes less complicated for
you to let go and move on. When you accept the facts and make yourself
ready to move on towards a better path, you gradually find strength and
embrace the changes life offers.
- Focus inward: To bring a change in your outer
circumstances, it requisite to bring changes inside yourself. Meditate for
a while, analyze the things deeply and find the right ways out. Solutions
of all the minor or major problems occur in life is there inside you, all
you need to do is self –discovery. Review yourself, who you are, your
current lifestyle, the people around you and then analyze what change you
need to bring, how you’ll bring that change, make positive adjustments.
- Take a break for some time: Sometimes you
have to see things from far away to have a bigger and clear view. Take a
break, distance yourself for some time and explore newer things to
transform your current state of mind. Do what you love the most, follow
your innermost passion, spend time with yourself, and then return with
entirely a different and transformed personality. A Better You!
- Embrace the present and take a chance: The
best way to let go the past is look at your present with acceptance and
positive outlook. Look straight ahead towards you present and coming
future, open yourself to experience newer realities, meet new people and
set goals for future. When life throws some challenges on you and forces
you to bring a change, there is some reason behind it, to take you towards
a better life with more courage, more experience and more learning. So
never hesitate to take a chance on something new. You destiny waits for
your one decision to let go of the old memories and make way for newer
ones.
Tuesday, 17 May 2016
Train your mind to think positive and manifest abundance
Our thinking creates our attitude and our attitude defines the altitude of our life. Hence, we all must train our mind to think beyond our limited perceptions and find out the reason of almighty behind every tough situations we face. By bringing this small positive change in your thoughts and attitude, you can certainly attract more and more reasons to smile and enjoy the journey of life.
Wednesday, 11 May 2016
Success rate of Chanakya IAS Academy has surged to new heights
Chanakya
IAS Academy, which has been working towards realizing the dreams of Mr. AK
Mishra, (The managing Director of Chanakya IAS Academy) to teach, preach and
guide Civil Service Aspirants to success has once again helped hundreds of
students, across the India, get through the civil services examination. With
whooping 361 selections, Chanakya IAS Academy has proved that it specializes in
coaching civil services aspirants to success. The result has been declared today
on 11th May 2016 by UPSC.
The
Academy was established in 1993 and since then the academy, headquartered in
New Delhi with over 12 branches all over India, has given more than 3000
Successful Civil Servants to the nation. On this grand occasion when Chanakya
students have notched up phenomenal success, Chanakya IAS Academy takes immense
pride to congratulate all the successful 1078 students out of which 361
students have proud alumnus of Chanakya IAS Academy, who are now all set to
serve their nations with their formidable administrative traits, higher
capabilities, and profusion of knowledge bestowed by Success Guru AK Mishra.
Among
the top 10 ranks, Chanakya IAS Academy’s students have triumphed 3 ranks to
their names, while 40 candidates have found place top 100. Athar Aamir Ul Shafi
secured all India 2nd rank, Shashank Tripathi secured all India 5th
rank and Karant Satyarthi with all India 9th rank have successfully
entered in top 10 ranks of CSE 2015 under the guidance of Success Guru AK
Mishra and seasoned faculties of
Chanakya IAS Academy.
When
talked to Mr. AK Mishra on this, he with immense pride congratulated his
successful candidates and wished them all very good luck for their future
endeavors. He said, “I am glad and proud to see my students serving and
working for our nation with such dedication and honesty, and I am sure my these
students will also do wonders and make me feel proud even more, as I could see
the dream and passion in their eyes because of which they all are all set to
pursue their dream job today”
Tuesday, 10 May 2016
What's meant to be will always find it's way
Life is full of mysteries and miracles. You never know how absolutely perfect something could turn our to be on entirely a different path you had never thought about. So keep moving and keep enjoy the journey while unlocking the beautiful mysteries of life.
Difficult Roads often leads to beautiful destinations
Sunday, 8 May 2016
AK Mishra’s Art of Success wishes all beautiful Mother’s A very Happy Mother’s Day
There are many precious things that
God has bestowed on us; however, Mother is one of unique gifts of God. She is an
expression of Sacrifice and Love. 10th
May is such a special day, to honor Mothers, Great Grandmothers to make a
beautiful contribution to the family and the society. It’s a day for everyone
to show their appreciation and love towards mothers and mother figures
worldwide. On this special occasion, AK Mishra’s Art of Success salutes to all
the mothers on this earth who compromise all her wishes, happiness just to
fulfill the wishes of her kids and family. Mothers comprise of a
bundle of emotions. So this goes out to all the mothers who have
kept awake all night with their sick kids in their arms, constantly
whispering those compassionate words, "It's OK baby, mom is
here, For those mothers who cannot control tears from dribbling down their
cheeks when they hold their babies for the first time in their arms; So,
this is meant for all the young and aged mothers, Housewives and working
mothers, married mothers and the single mothers, and for those without whom
life would have been insufferable.
A Case Study
A daughter is giving a huge
thanks to her single mother, while sharing her story with us and her mother’s
love after attending our session “Art of Success for Parenting”
Preeti: “ While I was
attending the session, AK Mishra’s Art of Success, Suddenly between the
session, AK Mishra Sir posed this question: Who has influenced your life the
most? I thought for a while, and realized, it was no one else, but “My Mother”
I recalled when I was just
5yrs old, my Dad died. That time when my dad was with us, the life was so
beautiful and easy. It seemed like we were on the top of the world. My dad was
making good money and we were living in a big house in Bandra, Mumbai. Then my
dad was diagnosed with cancer and died in next 5 months. That’s when we found out
that my dad didn’t have any great life insurance. Nor we had enough savings, as
everything was going so smooth; we never had a thought of something like this
ever.
During the session, when I was
hearing the struggle stories, shared by parents during the session, I reflected
back on my life, I realize how difficult it would had been for my mother to
handle this sudden turn of life, upbringing of a 5yrs kid and providing her
good education being a single parent. most of what I am today, I learned from a
tough, courageous woman who went to work hard day and night to get me ready for
life. I realize now how many success principles she displayed while living out
her life. One of the principles I learned from my mom was to “never complain”.
It was tough for my mom, she really got a bad deal, but as I look back, I
cannot remember any of her complaining about her tough times in life. And I
used to complain for all those small things she couldn’t give to me without
realizing that she was actually giving her life to me. But now I have actually
learnt those principles which I am going to follow throughout my life. She only
had one goal in her mind, to give her daughter a beautiful life. She did not
marry again as she used to be scared if the man would love her daughter or not.
My mother has not only been a mother for me, but an idol Women, a friend who
always guided me at every step. I remember when my mother used to take me at
her conference and seminars, when I was 11yrs old, not because she did not
provide me babysitter, but she wanted me to learn something. The way AK Mishra
sir portrayed the love of parents for their kids by his words and strong facts
he shared, narrating stories, examples; I literally had tears in my eyes
throughout the seminar, tears of pleasure for having such wonderful mother in
my life. Thanks to AK Mishra’s Art of Success.”
This is the story of a mother and
daughter, who faced sudden enormous change in their life, and how her mother
took all those tough moments and challenges on herself and saved her daughter
from all the negative effects. We actually feel proud for organizing such
session on this beautiful module “Art of Success for Parenting” as we can
actually see how it makes kids realize the parents’ emotions and sacrifices
they make to give their kids a beautiful life, as this daughter realized.
This is dedicated to all of
those single moms out there. You are doing a tough job. Stay determined and
love your kids. They’ll see your life and turn out all right.
One relationship which is always with
us is the one we share with our mothers. They are our guiding force and are
responsible for making us who we are. Mothers also shape our lives and our
personalities and crediting them for the same is something one should do at
every opportunity. Although, we should not forget that the same contribution
comes from fathers as well, and without a father, it becomes too arduous for a
mother to give her child the same upbringing and nurturing the way she could
provide with a father figure. But undoubtedly, we have those courageous mothers
who do not only play role of both father and mother in kid’s life, but also
nurture their kid so beautifully and bring out amazingly independent
personalities from the kids.
On this special occasion, every kid
should realize how special they have been treated by their lovely mothers. We
might have our own individualistic approach in paying tribute to these amazing people
in our lives, OUR MOTHER. AK Mishra’s Art of Success dedicates this day
to all the beautiful mothers and wishes every kid a very good luck for making their
mothers feel how special and wonderful creature they are, crafted by master’s
craftsman.
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