We keep evolving time to time as
we age. Just because you faced problems in past doesn’t mean you will still
face problems in such circumstances, or something which was right for you in
past not necessarily be right today. This fact can be applied in any situation,
could be a relationship, a habit, a job, etc.
You keep discovering yourself
deeply more and more gradually as you grow; you get to know what you truly
desire, what ultimate outcome you want out of your life, with whom you want to
stay and without whom you need to move on; and slowly you realize that these
changes in life are required and gradually comes in your personality with
circumstances and different happenings around you and inside you.
You might not feel too
comfortable with the people were best friends in your school or college time,
those specific routines you used to follow and the people you used to be with
are no longer align with you current consciences.
Circumstances and situations
which force you to changes, let go and move on
There could be many situations
and circumstances arise in our life which we never thought about in past or you
might would want to be mentally and emotionally stronger because you have hurt
by the ones you love one or several times. Other reasons could be, you have
grown apart from someone. Sometimes we
are destined to meet someone from a set time period but we gradually evolve and
understand that they are not compatible people for us and committed to
misunderstand us and however moving on and letting go is the better solution
for a positive flow of life. Other reason could be some negative people around
you who are energy jabbers and has to cut out from your life slowly, or you
need to overcome the fears which hold you back, etc.
Letting go is surely not easy,
but it is necessary for our own well-being and growth.
Ways to move on and let go
Holding on the past often leads
to discouragement and miseries, whereas letting go while cherishing the present
moments help you realize how beautifully you've transformed and stepping
towards your personal growth and becoming the person you'll love to be &
destined to be. Let’s take a look at few ways
- Take ownership and charge of your life: Whatever
situations you face in life, always remember that no one is responsible for
that except you. You are in completely charge of whatever occurs in your
life, and should not blame other person or your parents your mentors etc.
Unless and until you’ll learn to accept that you are the one who is
responsible for all good or bad occur in your life, rather blaming others,
you will never be able to help yourself grow as a person and take the
learning of life. If you want the change in your life, you are the only
one who can make it happen.
- Accept with gratitude: Letting go is
difficult, but when you be thankful for the good or bad experiences
you had that helped you learn and grow, it becomes less complicated for
you to let go and move on. When you accept the facts and make yourself
ready to move on towards a better path, you gradually find strength and
embrace the changes life offers.
- Focus inward: To bring a change in your outer
circumstances, it requisite to bring changes inside yourself. Meditate for
a while, analyze the things deeply and find the right ways out. Solutions
of all the minor or major problems occur in life is there inside you, all
you need to do is self –discovery. Review yourself, who you are, your
current lifestyle, the people around you and then analyze what change you
need to bring, how you’ll bring that change, make positive adjustments.
- Take a break for some time: Sometimes you
have to see things from far away to have a bigger and clear view. Take a
break, distance yourself for some time and explore newer things to
transform your current state of mind. Do what you love the most, follow
your innermost passion, spend time with yourself, and then return with
entirely a different and transformed personality. A Better You!
- Embrace the present and take a chance: The
best way to let go the past is look at your present with acceptance and
positive outlook. Look straight ahead towards you present and coming
future, open yourself to experience newer realities, meet new people and
set goals for future. When life throws some challenges on you and forces
you to bring a change, there is some reason behind it, to take you towards
a better life with more courage, more experience and more learning. So
never hesitate to take a chance on something new. You destiny waits for
your one decision to let go of the old memories and make way for newer
ones.
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