Every Human being is unique
with some unique personality traits. The creator has created some personal
identity and qualities in each one of us, yet delegated the responsibilities to
us human beings to discover that power God has bestowed to us in order to
achieve that immense triumph of life.
As parents, we know our
children are unique, but our lack of knowledge and guidance makes us unable to
help them realize how special they are and can become. Parents must know how to
cultivate the gifts within each of their children. We merely rely on schools to
help them discover their life’s goal, and as they grow up, parents end up
worrying about their Children's future goals and decisions.
The job as parents is a never
ending process, most of the time parents are aware of the wildest dreams of
their kids, yet are powerless to tell them how to achieve those desires. Even
the wildest dreams or most annoying traits of a kid can bring out the most beautiful
personality of your child. Hence, instead of trying to abolish a child’s
annoying personality, parents should harvest the spiritual gifts that accompany
such traits.
“Every flower fertilized in a well
organized garden flourish as a wildflower. Similarly Children’s unmanageable
and sometimes annoying characteristics can help them raise as a successful
personality. That annoying trait might be a unique strength waiting to be
trained and shine. So often, the attribute that exhibits as a child’s greatest
weakness holds the potential to be his enormous strength."
Hence, remember to cultivate
and embellish instead of eradicating, whenever your child irritate you with
his/her annoying traits..
- Blandly help your sensitive child to be emotionally strong and practical at some walks of life and not to melt down in every situation, but do not completely try to wipe out his/sensitivity. Try to cultivate his/her sensitivity in pertinent expressions, which can help her to understand the emotions of others, you might have a future psychologist or counselor at your home.
- Blandly help your talkative child to be polite and stay quiet when it requires to be quiet, and what to talk in what situation, but also cultivate her love to talk by putting up a topic he/she loves to talk about. You might have an intellectual personality at your home.
- Blandly help your imaginative child to not deeply drenched in his/her imaginative world, but do not ignore when he/she talks about her imagination taken from a book, dreams, etc. You might have a future painter or writer at your home.
- Blandly help your dominating child to not become too aggressive in all personal affairs, but also cultivate his aggressiveness and dominating characteristics by delegating appropriate responsibilities. You might have an entrepreneur, CEO, or an IAS in your home.
- Blandly help your overly energetic child to be still and calm when required, but also flourish his/her love of doing energetic activities by indulging him in the activities which channel that energy in more productive ways. You might have a future Businessman or a player in your home.
Undoubtedly, parenting is a
tough job, but proper guidance and love can give you a lifetime satisfaction
and a beautiful life to your kid.
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